Well at the moment I am not having much in the way of success with any other method of visual gesture control in xbmc, kinemote is hard to find a download for. I am using kinemote light and well lol, that's just pathetic from my standpoint.
I have also tried a few others, kinect remote (kinemote's ancestor) and the kinect adapter for xbmc. The last of which had the most if limited success.
FAAST, has a very nice interface for seeing what the kinect is seeing (skeletal data, depth data etc) and you can switch between upper and full body modes. It works by setting up a series of events that trigger key presses and is by far the most successful program I have used so far for the purpose.
I have used it in one game so far (crysis 2) in which I used another voice app + FAAST to change weapons, shoot, jump etc. I will actually upload a video to youtube to demonstrate if that's allowed on the forum.
If you want to take a closer look go to
http://projects.ict.usc.edu/mxr/faast/Or take a look here
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EZNBw_0fVFkI think so far this will be the best option (for me) to get a workable visual control system working without issues getting in the way. That combined with vox commando should be a powerful combination. Will post a video on my progress as soon as I can.